DUHS Class of 1953 -- 50-th Anniversary  --  September 6, 2003

 

In case you are starved for news -

Hurricanes have come VERY CLOSE to the Florida Peninsula  and to Bermuda

The Disneyland Big Thunder Railroad ride had an apparent equipment failure causing an engine to jump the track -- injuring 10 and killing 1.

Illegal aliens can now apply for California divers’ licenses; which may assist them in voting against the recall of  the governor who signed this into law yesterday.

The next time that you go to McDonalds, be sure to ask for the California Special -

        for a mere 79-cents extra,  you can run for replacement governor.

 

-- An anonymous quote ___

Old age is when former classmates are so  wrinkled,  gray,  and bald,

 that they don't recognize you.

 

Your committee has struggled long and hard to decide between picnic /vs/ catered affair, chicken /vs/ beef, park /vs/ Hotel /vs/ country club,  tux /vs/ suits /vs/ Hawaiian /vs/ casual,  Maroon /vs/ Cardinal /vs/ Red, DJ /vs/ Boom-box, loud /vs/ soft-so-we-can-talk-without-shouting. I voted poorly on one matter and lost several  preference arguments, but I’m glad to see that so very many of us managed to get here and enjoy each other’s company. In the process the committee got to know each other more than we ever did in school, and in some cases TOO much more; but we’ve survived.

We sure hope that you enjoy this event; if you’re offended by other folks being over- or under- dressed, then I figure that’s TOUGH!!  ‘cause  we’re NOT here to compare wardrobes and bankbooks, but rather to meet, greet, reminisce, and chat over QUIET background music.

Many who are NOT attending expressed a preference for something simpler - like a picnic.

But our hope is that tonite’s format has MAXimized the attendance.

 

PLEASE pass along your comments about the future to Mary Varela  by tearing off the last page of the program packet and getting it her. Be careful not to smear the remainder - it just came from the copier.

 

Finding everybody for THIS reunion was a long and arduous task begun five(5) years ago, waaaaay back in the prior millennium, specifically in 1998, involving multiple search operations and even RE‑finding some who moved and forgot to keep in touch. The initial driving force was that I discovered that the School had an alumni directory published in 1995 and I was listed as “missing”; in fact there were only 58 of us listed as “found”, and some of those were bogus addresses and even bogus people.

Eventually I got a peek at the original info that the School gave to the publishing company; my address there was the one from which we moved while I was in 8th grade; so much for accuracy and currency.

 

At this time I believe we have just over 200 street addresses and 125 email addresses, and my DUHS E-Mail box from this 5-year period contains just under 10-million bytes in just over 2100 messages.

Such searches will NOT  be done in the future, if you get "lost" from the committee's "Radar Screen" after this event, then you will just simply miss out on part of the future.


In order to keep track of everybody for any future reunion events, PLEASE keep the committee informed of any change of name,  address, telephone number, area‑code, or E‑Mail by forwarding that information as requested on the “Keeping in Touch” page in your program packet. Likely significant stuff will continue to be posted on the website noted there. There is nearly no such thing as e-mail forwarding; the post-office forwards mail for a short while;  the phone company used to offer number changes for a short period but seem to have gotten away from that service; the area-code changes (most of which are political rather than necessary -- but that’s another subject we can chat about off-line) seem to give NO notice to the caller whatsoever.

 

I’d like give a big thanks to thank Margie Morrow for her insight of who might know about whom and untiring help in finding folks and in using her phone card to call a lot of long distance folks.  And also to Alex Petrie for his paid  “gold” membership status in Classmates.Com -- enabling him contact  all of those who showed up on that somewhat awkward over-commercialized website.

If any of you have Unlimited calling and might like to help for the future to make calls, then please let me know.

 

Also it should be noted that ...

 * Margie and Mary Varela  made  the MAROON-RIBBONED Norseman extracts which are at each place; there are two “editions” placed alternately,  so each couple should end up with one each; please make sure that you do. There may be some extras for you singles who want a matched pair.

 * Myra Murray has done a super job with the pics of those no longer with us; do look at her work of the Volsung images and also the recent images which she was able to obtain from surviving relatives.

 * Mike Stelzer capitalized the investment in the class caps, so please do patronize the table over here where Margie’s grandkids are holding down the fort to sell them.

 * Bob Siemann’s wife made the main door-prize quilt; we all owe her a BIG THANK YOU!!

 * I forget who made the other door prizes, but our thanks to them also. 

 * Ben Rogers put together the Trivia Quiz

 * Mary Varela  created the stuffed Vickie  in the corner.

 * Sally Harris’ husband, Ralph Lawson, has made an excellent notebook of the pictures which I’ve posted on the WebSite – together with the names of those which have been identified so far; please stop by and look at our “original” selves from FIRST GRADE onward, and give us names for the blanks.

 * Darlene Conte has graciously agreed to sight-read and play our Alma Mater, but we don’t have a piano.

 

Regarding the size of the class; well, as June Allyson says, "That Depends".

As of a short while back, the counts are as follows ...

   280  Yearbook pictures

   271  Grad Nite program entries

   281  In 1977 list   from the reunion program

                        (187 found +  94 lost)

   277  In 1995 list   from the School's published Directory

                        ( 58 found + 219 lost)

but they do not precisely overlap each other;

there are only 236 on all of those lists (i.e.,  most of us);

then there are  76 on some but NOT ALL of the  lists

then there are  16 which have been added (e.g., Shirley Bergman)

               ‑‑‑‑

for a total of 328.

 

There is a list of all of the class near the back of your program; it is coded for missing and deceased.

There is a list of the last known addresses of everybody on each table; please share it around and flip a coin to see who takes it home. 

There were lotsa gals who obtained recognition as Life Members of the Calif Scholarship Federation, but only two guys: Jerome Holland passed away recently, and Carl Kardinal was just inducted into the School’s Hall of Fame. The two youngest guys in the class are now gone: Jerome and Jack Potapov.

 

In our day there was “Mad Magazine” which boasted  “Our Price 25 Cents Cheap”;


well, I still have a few good Xerox-like copies of the ‘53 Volsung senior portrait pages, available: $10 - cheap.

 

As I can reckon things, there were SIX(6) couples from the class

           [ Blackmore, Agnew, Mannino, Kearns, Smith, Garrett  ]       

     but only two survive, and only one is present -- Tom and Joanne Pearson Blackmore

Please let’s have a show of hands of  ...

  ... those members of OUR class who are married to  School-mates from other classes ____

In both cases there used to be more, but circumstances have taken a toll on some.

How many of us still live in Downey? ____

 

There are 43 confirmed NOT coming for reasons of Health, Weddings, Cruises, Vacations, Conflicts, lack of interest. Some took the effort to send their regrets, wish us well,  and ask to be remembered , e.g.,

PhyllisBierbower, FeliciaCarhart, NormCollins, KenCopeland, SallyDever, JimHorn, JohnMarxmiller, RichardMcGuire, HenryOranMitchell, DougPhillips, AltheaSand, MargaretWallar,  MaryAnnWatts&JerryM, BerylWilliams, EdWissler, FredZeuthen

 

Imagine that the long range notations go to MaryJo Gobel and Joan Wintermute for distance traveled to get here (they coincidently live a few blocks from each other in Florida),  to Arlis Arnold for distance traveled when leaving (she’s moving to Hawaii) , and to Sheelagh Jennings for distance from here at the moment (in Italy with some of her sons who live there).

 

For those of you who do already have E-Mail addresses but have not been getting stuff about the class, please let me have your email address or simply email me when you get home, and do note my email address and the Class’ website address in the program.

For those of you who have not yet gotten connected to the internet to explore the wondrous world wide web and E-Mail, I urge you to get with it and step into the third millennium. Your kids or grandkids will be glad to help you, and then email me your address. Many of you can even get your feet wet a good deal at your local libraries.

 

Learning does not stop with graduation or retirement.

Besides finding class members, I’m also into genealogy a little; let me share with you the origin of some customs from times gone by. The “wakes”  held for the deceased, stem from times when they would lay them out at home for a few days to see if they might wake up.     The phrases 

                         “dead ringer” & “saved by the bell”

are from when people would die (way back when ~ before they embalmed people) and to make sure that they  were dead they would tie a string attached to a bell around the toe or hand ~ if the dead person woke up in the casket (in the grave) the string would pull -- thus ringing the bell ~ notifying the graveyard attendant that there was a "dead Ringer" meaning dig the guy up! “Saved by the bell” meant that the dead person was saved by the ringing of the bell and was not left to die in the casket.

And I’m glad to note that contrary to RUMOR, Don Hocker is alive and well and with us tonite.

 

Tried to get an actuary friend of mine to tell me what percentage of us should statistically be deceased, but apparently the calculations took too long as he never got back to me.

 

Classmates Bill Prahm, Barbara Whitmore, Robert Wilkerson, & Jim Sharp have been RUMORED to be deceased, but as I'd prefer to confirm such things (to avoid the Mark‑Twain syndrome), would VERY MUCH appreciate anything that anyone might know about them.

 


Patsy Steere has snuck out from under the 53Viking radar; G. Martin Wright never came onto the radar; any info appreciated. Have heard from some that they would come if certain others were coming; never did hear of any that would NOT come if  certain others were coming.

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Bill O’Neill of DUHS’52 (one-time Volsung editor) has written some excellent remembrances of life around DUHS; some are included by permission in your program tonight; am sure that they will bring back fond memories of your time there; so DO contact Bill thru his class’ webpage & tell him how much you appreciated reading it.  Also on their WebSite, Bill has placed a very good article about his classmate Jim Hearn.

Also in the program is a pitch for the School’s Hall-Of-Fame, please check it out.

Other items there about our time and the years since, have been sent to me in Email over the months.

 

 ‑‑ A quote from Lee Iacocca ‑ on Teaching___

"In a completely rational society, the best of us would aspire to be

teachers and the rest of us would have to settle for something less,

because passing civilization along from one generation to the next ought

to be the highest honor and the highest responsibility anyone could have."

 

 

It’s too late for us now, but do remind your kids and grand-kids to make a point of returning to campus and thanking those teachers which had a positive influence.

 

Speaking of teachers:  those of whom I’m aware are still on this side of the sable curtain are ...

   WallyKincaid, DeanKrebs, GusShiney, JohnMilam, and  JaneWalta  to whom I owe the concepts of using the possessive with the gerund and never ending with a preposition - about which Churchill once said "This is the sort of English up with which I will not put.".

 

I was planning to announce a BYO-everything  picnic tomorrow on campus, but it will be locked, but last week they offered me a key because mine won’t work any more - they changed the locks, but with all of the construction going on, I couldn’t find a suitable spot.

 

In our day, the old bleachers which had been built by the WPA and stood  N.E. of the Chem/Physics classrooms, were moved on large rollers to the what became Burbeck field in our year.  That area has just recently been demolished. The football field (which will be replaced by two baseball diamonds) will be moved to the west, and the new grandstand/bleachers will be enclosed underneath and have classrooms located there. Have heard that the field will be artificial and less-destructible and thus will be able to be used  for other events without concern for its playing quality. I’d like to suggest that we all write to the School Principal, the District Superintendent, and the Board of Education and request that the new field retain the name “Burbeck Field”.

 

At one time in Downey there was a large Bean field/OrangeGrove at Alameda and Lakewood which became, in turn, E.M.Smith(EMSCO), Vultee, Consolidated Vultee, Convair, NAA, NAR, Rockwell, Boeing,

  But since the world is now such a friendly place these day that we no longer need good defense machinery, that has all been dismantled in favor of

City-REdevelopment  into  Retail Warehousing, Hospital, School, Park, etc.

  There was a NASA-to-Downey turnover  ceremony last week, but my understanding is that Governor Davis is somehow still sitting on the official paperwork due to some strange twisting of  a “Desert Reclamation Act”; it’s rumored that he is waiting for a contribution to his quash-the-recall campaign fund to sign off on the deal.

 

-- A Quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson  on  SUCCESS___


To laugh often and much;

to win the respect of intelligent people and affection of children;

to earn the appreciation of honest critics

 and endure the betrayal of false friends;

to appreciate beauty

to find the best in others

to leave the world a bit better,

      whether by a healthy child

                 a garden patch

              or a redeemed social condition;

to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.

This is to have succeeded.

 

Surely we’ve all succeeded in our own way.

 

To those of you who are not yet interested in your family history, I’d suggest that you make time now to take an interest before it’s too late. In either case my first suggestion is to sit down with those in your next older generation -- whether parent, uncle, cousin    and interview them  with a Camcorder,  like David Frost would do. If you are already the oldest generation, then sit down with the next younger generation in a similar setting. The object should be for no one to take with them the only copy of some vital information in family history.

 

In the business of tracking down folks, you learn a lot about inter-personal relationships and rumors, too, -- sometimes more than you ever wanted to know,   e.g., 

Why some abhor reunions.

Whose email addresses are based on the family pets

Who’s left reunions with more different mates

Which family has the greatest sibling rivalry

Which local popular-ite has the least interest in the reunion.

Who’s lived in more places since we started tracking.

Who has worked for the same company the longest - there is a tie here:

Richard Beck and Merle Eide  both with NAA/NAR/Rockwell/Boeing for 50 Years

 

If you’re interested in the low-down on anyone or would like to contribute to the rumor mill, I’ll be sitting over there somewhere with my notes --- and also willing to talk genealogy and area codes, too.

Do watch the class’ WebSite for future stuff. My thanks go out to Fred Brossmer for looking over soooo many of the links that he  even asked questions about some, and to the gal this evening (whose name I’ve stupidly forgotten already) who correctly identified the two mystery pictures. Who was that? Please raise your hand.

 

NOW - Would like to leave you with a few final thoughts ..

 - Life is a partial derivative.

 - Ever remember the unique and wonderful meaning of the

       Square root of Two and the Square root of FIVE as applicable to architecture, construction, etc.

 - May you all have safe trips home -- especially if over the date of   9/11.

 - Long may the Flag of Our Country ever wave --

Thank you for being here...... Please  _DO_    Keep In Touch.......

 

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